Thursday, October 21, 2010 ♥ 17:46
♥ smooches
FUCK MCKL!
No, seriously. Fuck MCKL. I swear that place is hell on earth.
My outfit today :
Smock on top. Cardigan on. Knee length. Covers most of my skin.
Well, i was innocently standing around and along comes a certain woman. Woman takes one look at me and asks me why i'm dressed like that. She then proceeds to insist that if i wanna wear that dress i might as well do it without the cardigan. Followed by take it off! in a challenging tone. Obviously i do not respond to that. She then tells me to go get my student ID, so i walk away.
When i come back she asks me if i know why my outfit is wrong. I answer no. This is because i didn't see what rule i was breaking. The skirt is relatively long, i'm covering up my arms, it's not low cut or anything like that. (Well, i didn't say this part to her so as to not give her another reason to attack me.) So, she tells me to follow her to her office. She makes me sit down and proceeds to give me a 20 minute lecture.
It starts off with how if i'm dressed indecently boys will ogle me, try to touch me, rape me, etc etc. She also includes that the first thing a male thinks when he sees you is : hmm, what is her cup size? She then also says that if i wanted to wear that dress i shouldn't wear the coat and reveal it all. (Which doesn't even make sense btw because i wore the coat so i wouldn't "reveal it all") She then insists that my non V-neck dress was low cut and people could see down my dress if i bent down. Bear in mind that this is a smock dress that we are talking about. A freaking smock dress!
She then talks about how people only dress indecently to attract unwanted attention from the opposite sex. And if i dressed like this boys would stand at the bottom of the steps to look up my skirt. Her tone conveyed that i intentionally dressed slutty to get attention.
I then started crying cause i was so upset at being judged so unfairly. She then switched to some condescending patronizing tone and went on about how i'm a pretty girl but i shouldn't be dressing like this to college because this dress is solely meant for parties. It went of for another 10 minutes then she ended her lecture with if a boy asks you for sex before marriage, say no!
How much clearer can one make it that they think you are a slut? She made it pretty damn clear. So, screw this place. I hate it. Can't wait to get out.
