Saturday, October 3, 2009 ♥ 00:00
♥ smooches
Parents are stange creatures. I don't understand how their minds work. Just today i was in the car and my mum decided to bring up last Saturday. It's a long story so sit tight, people.
I was happily going for my lil cousin's birthday party and my parents were going for a wedding. My mom told me to give some mooncake to my grandfather, the type you keep in the fridge. So, i happily gave him the mooncake, assuming that he would open and look at it before putting it away since i already stressed (under my mother's orders) that the mooncake was specially for him and that he should share it with noone. I was sorely mistaken.
I had dinner then went upstairs to play monopoly, which i lost. But i hope that the winner is happy living alone in Monopoly land. Muahaha! You know who you are. Then it was getting late so i went downstairs to wait for my parents and my aunt came, bearing mooncake which she cut up and fed to my grandfather at the speed of light.
Then, my mom came and i told her to ask my grandfather tell my grandfather bout the mooncake i gave him just to be sure. So, he went and got the mooncake out from some box which was not the fridge and that was when my mother exploded. Mmhmm. She started freaking out at me because i didn't put them in the fridge. I defended myself, saying i didn't even know where the fridge was. She asked me why i didn't tell him it was meant to be kept in the fridge. I had no defence so i quickly helped them keep the mooncake in the fridge, which i was competent enough to find. Even after putting the mooncake away, she was still screaming at me so i said yeah, yeah it's all my fault and sat down, angry.
Then, she told my grandfather to eat the mooncake that she gave him. He said he was already full from the mooncake my aunt fed him. She was. I don't know. Jealous? And was all like, you eat her mooncake you don't eat mineee! And he said that when my aunt got there she started feeding him the mooncake and he had no choice but to eat it. She then proceeded to say that it was all my fault for not feeding him the freaking mooncake. I was already all hormonal and angry so i raised my voice like :
WHAT DO YOU WANT ME TO DO, MOM? YOU WANT ME TO KEEP IT IN THE FRIDGE OR CUT IT UP? WHAT?
Then, i stormed out of the kitchen so that noone would see my angry tears. Not a wise choice because my lil cousins all came out to stare at me so i went back in and my mom was waiting to ambush me. She started screaming at me loudly bout how she's my mother and i should never raise my voice at her that way. Everyone was staring at me from the kitchen. She then told me to stop crying. Yeah, i can just hear the words "stop crying" and magically stem the flow of my tears. Talk about unreasonable requests.
Oh yeah, i was angry. Even the next day at the lunch table when my dad said : "You gonna start crying on us again?" And laughed like he just made the funniest joke in the world. And when my aunt called my mom from Spain, my mom told her the story, conveniently leaving out the part where she blamed me for everything and made it sound like i raised my voice at her for no reason at all. She even added all the "raised her and she treats me like this" pity crap.
I'm still angry bout that today. So, when she brought it up i was not happy. Especially because she clearly stated that i was angry because i didn't tell my grandfather how to store freaking mooncakes.
Well, if that's what she thinks she obviously does not understand the way the mind of a 17 year old teenage girl works. She proceeded to ask me all about Lili's party. Followed by whether i wanted to go swimming tonight. Now where is the logic in that? She said she wanted me to stay at home and study. Well, i can hardly study while i swim now, can i?
She also said we were going out for dinner. that would probably take up alot of time. About as much time as i would spend at Lili's party, no? So, i asked her what the logic behind that was. And she got angry and told me that if i wanted to fail my exams i could go ahead and fail my spm. And how i can't go out because i am being punished for failing chem during my mid terms, not because of anything else. Can she not see how she is contradicting herself? If the reason i can't go out is because i am being punished then that has nothing to do with me failing my spm. And if she's gonna bring me out anyway then i won't be studying and i would "fail my spm" anyways, right?
She then decided that i was just trying to make life hard for her so that i could go to Lili's party when the truth is i was just trying to see the logic in her thinking. Well, we ended up eating leftovers at home and i still don't understand the way my mom's mind works. Haha. Wow, that was a long post. If you are still reading my extremely long rant then you know i love you. Haha. Bye, people!
